Apply
This practice works with a limited number of individuals and couples at a time.
Engagement begins with a structured application to determine fit, readiness, and scope.
Not all applications are accepted.
This is intentional.
Purpose of the Application
The application is not a formality.
It is part of the intervention.
It helps determine whether this work is appropriate for your situation, and whether the structure, pace, and expectations align with what you are prepared to engage in.
What the Application Asks
The application will ask you to reflect on:
The decision, pattern, or dynamic that has stalled despite insight or effort
What has already been tried, and with what results
Why change feels urgent or consequential now
What outcome would make this work worthwhile
Your availability and readiness for structured, directive engagement
There are no “right” answers.
Clarity and accuracy matter more than presentation.
What This Work Requires
If accepted, engagement typically involves:
Short-term, focused work
Clear goals and defined outcomes
Behavioral accountability between sessions
Willingness to interrupt familiar patterns
Active participation rather than passive exploration
This is collaborative work, but it is not neutral or open-ended.
What Happens After You Apply
Applications are reviewed carefully
Some applicants may be invited to a brief consult
Some applications will not proceed further
If the work is not a fit, no ongoing engagement is initiated.
This protects both you and the integrity of the work.
Proceed When Ready
If you are clear that insight alone is no longer sufficient —
and you are prepared for structured intervention with real consequences —
you may proceed with the application.